Being a Ladies ain't that easy and let's face it guys When do you actually see yourself as a MAN?" is it when undoing the pants of every Lady you woo or when you put away childish things and start acting mature... Indeed the latter is correct and Below are 10 signs that will determine if you have reach that stage;
1. You are faithful to one partner;
Only children say one thing and mean another.If you vowed to remain faithful to her till death do you both part, then stick to your word. A man is known by his words!
2. Thoughtfulness;
A real man plans ahead. He has it all figured out. Don't let your colleague be the one to remind you of your wife's birthday or anniversary. Some men are too busy that they can't notice when their wife is going through stress at work....
3. You don't ever lay a finger on your wife;
Stop jokingly hitting ladies...Beating your spouse is insanity! You and her are One, beating her is beating yourself. Who does that? An insane man. Are you insane?
4. You apologize relentlessly;
Stop forming King Kong, That era is over!! You offended and in your head is the school of thought that men don't apologize to women. My guy, which planet are you from?
5. You talk less when your lady talks much;
Women are not only endowed at the back but also in their mouth. When she is hurt, she will talk, but your reply should be in few sentences.Two wrongs cannot make a right!
6. You are financially buoyant to take care of her needs;
You said, she is disrespectful. Start giving her money and see submission in action. # I'm not referring those Recharge Card Beggers on Social Networks oo #Women are designed to receive! Take it! Giving her tells her you care for her... how can you say you care and you've not a spent a penny on her? Give her again and again and watch her pay attention to you and your dreams.. lol. #Nobody care how much you know until they know how much you care# QED!
7. You don't stay out late;
Whatever excuse you may want to give is not worth it... Is it football? Buy your own cable... Metro is not expensive!if it's Drinking? Stop it!!
8. You appreciate her ceaselessly;
Your girl buys you a wrist watch and you don't really appreciate because you think it's your money, after all...hah! No matter how "hard" a woman is, appreciation causes her to do more without complaining. Complaining is a sign that you're not recognizing her efforts in the house.You think she is an house wife? Wrong! She wakes 4AM for school runs, then market, kitchen, washing, shop, school runs etc...With appreciation, a woman can lick your feet...
9. Sexually Active;
I hope you haven't forget the case of Alexis Sanchez and his girlfriend.. Heavenly feeling is part of what makes sex pleasurable. Every woman wants it! For V's like some of us, we need to read books how to really truly satisfy our woman. She deserves it na! Forget Indecency Films we know the drill.. Viagra...
10. Don't ever say this:
"Don't you know I'm the man of the house?" Lol! She will just know you are the baba! You don't have to say it...If indeed, you have tried to work on yourself from No. 1 - 9, Then No. 10 will just come naturally. Only children tell their younger ones, "don't you know I'm older than you?"
NB: No one is perfect o, we are all striving towards it... So therefore feel free to Air your views or comment on your opinion..
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